Sibling support
Having a sibling with a serious or life-limiting condition can bring a range of confusing and conflicting emotions. We’re here to give brothers and sisters the chance to understand and express their often complex feelings.
For fun, friendship and therapeutic support
At Demelza, we know that for children and young people who have a sibling with a serious or life-limiting condition, spending time with others in similar situations can make a real difference.
Group activities, individual therapy sessions, or simply having fun with peers can offer a safe space to explore and manage emotions. These moments of connection, play and understanding can be incredibly powerful in helping young people feel seen, heard and supported. We also recognise that every family is different, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach.
Our support
Our sibling support is tailored to different age groups, and includes a mix of fun and engaging activities, plus therapeutic and emotional support. We offer both one to one and group sessions, which can also help them build a community of friends.
Under fives
If you are looking for support for a sibling aged under five then you can contact the family liaison team for advice and help finding relevant guidance and resources.
One-to-one support
From age five, we offer sibling support on a one-to-one basis for those who are most in need or find it difficult to access group sessions. We offer up to six sessions with the possibility of further sessions if needed, or signposting to other available support. We also offer one-to-one gaming sessions - contact us to find out more.
Activity days
As part of our seasonal programmes, you can sign up to activity days for siblings aged 5-17. The days will be themed for each season, with a variety of activities available to allow freedom of choice. Examples include indoor and outdoor games, crafting, movies, gaming tents and much more. They are also a great opportunity for siblings to meet each other and develop peer relationships.
Online sessions
Siblings are invited to take part in our monthly online sessions for both younger (5-11) and older (12-17) siblings. These themed sessions offer the opportunity for siblings to meet others and enjoy crafting, games and quizzes together. Sessions could include making slime, building Lego, creating chocolate creatures and more.
Sibling residentials
Each year, we host an overnight residential for siblings in year six at our Kent hospice and offer the opportunity for those aged 15-17 years to attend the Young Carers Festival in Hampshire.
Both events are packed with fun activities and offer the chance to meet other young people who understand what it’s like to have a sibling with a serious or life-limiting condition. They help to increase resilience and confidence while building a support network.
"I like it when we go to Demelza and see people that we know and just have lots of fun. I always feel excited and happy to be going there, because I know my little sister is going to be happy."
We're here to help
If you have any general questions or would like more information about our family services, please contact our team on 01795 845280 (Monday to Friday, 10am – 4pm) or email familysupportdepartment@demelza.org.uk.
If you're not currently supported by Demelza, please fill out our referral form to see how we can help.