Bereavement support events
We hold a number of events throughout the year, offering families a chance to come together with the wider Demelza community and reflect, reminisce and celebrate the life of their child – and support each other too.


Winter programme
This winter, we’re offering a range of inclusive events and activities designed with care for families at every stage of their journey.
Each seasonal programme at Demelza aims to provide something for everyone.
Bereavement cafés
Come along to our friendly get togethers for bereaved families.
In person
Whether you want to share memories, get support, or just have a chat, you’re welcome. No booking needed – just drop in and say hello.
Farm Café:
- When: Second Thursday of the month, 10am – 12 noon
- Where: Demelza Hill Farm, Rook Lane, Bobbing, Sittingbourne, ME9 8DZ
Kitchen Café:
- When: Third Monday of the month, 10am – 12 noon
- Where: Demelza Eltham, 5 Wensley Close, Eltham, SE9 5AB
Virtual
A relaxed and friendly space to meet and support one another and connect with others who understand your grief, all from the comfort of your own home.
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When: First Tuesday of the month, 6.45pm – 7.45pm
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Where: Microsoft Teams

Remembrance events
Demelza's remembrance events are an opportunity for parents and carers to reflect, reminisce and celebrate the life of their child in the company of their family.
They allow families to come together with the wider Demelza community and take part in activities such as lighting candles, placing flowers, listening to music and creating memory art.
You will need to register for these events, and an invite will be sent to you by email or post closer to the time with information on how to sign up. If you have any questions please speak to the team.

Demelza Choir
Demelza Choir sessions are fun and inclusive with a wellbeing focus and are open to all families, volunteers and colleagues.
Each session involves a mindful vocal warm-up, singing a couple of songs together and a chance to chat over light refreshments. You don't have to attend every session, but we encourage you to join us when you can.
- When: Every other Wednesday, 5pm - 6.30pm
- Where: Large Meeting Room, Demelza Kent, Rook Lane, Sittingbourne, ME9 8DZ

Together Exploring workshops
Find connections and support in our Together Exploring workshops, facilitated by Demelza counsellors.
Together Exploring Grief is a six-session group, open to those who have experienced the death of a child more than six months ago. Other workshops will explore issues like baby loss and returning to work.
You will be sent more information as we add more workshops to the programme via the In Touch Newsletter.

We're here to help
If you have any general questions or would like more information about our bereavement services, please contact our team on 01795 845280 (Monday to Friday, 10am – 4pm) or email familysupportdepartment@demelza.org.uk.
If you're not currently supported by Demelza, please fill out our referral form to see how we can help.